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                                                 How To Make Friends If you're introvert
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  • Find common interest groups. Groups and events such as book clubs, cooking classes, or lectures can be good be places to meet people and find things that interest you. The attendees here are good people to talk to because you already know that you share at least one common interest. Most importantly, it gives you something to talk about when you meet someone, rather than try to make small talk, something many introverts do not enjoy.
  • Practice socializing. You want to improve your ability to interact with others. The only way to do that is the same way you improve any other skill: practice. You don't need to meet new people every day, but be willing to say hello and introduce yourself to people you don't know. Most conversations won't go anywhere, but that's fine. The goal is to get more comfortable in social settings for when you meet someone you do want to talk to. 
  • Begin conversation by sharing something. Starting a conversation by telling the other person something about yourself can be a good ice-breaker. It does not have to be especially personal or particularly revealing. A simple statement like "I'm new here" or "It's my first time" lets the other person know you want to talk to them, and lets them know something about you.
                        


  • Don’t like to talk about yourself? You don’t have to! Use your ability to focus and ask more precise questions to the people you meet. That will show them that you’re actually interested in them, and encourage them to spend more time with you.Always share your opinion on what is being discussed, that’s important. But it doesn’t have to be specifically about YOU.
  • Give yourself time to breath. Being an introvert, you NEED time for yourself.If you go out and meet friends twice a week, that’s great. You don’t need to go out everyday. And people can easily get used to the fact that you’re not always around.
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  • Be Patient. Oh, I know you hate to wait. Most of us do. If you need time before you can totally open up to people, then there is something important you need to know. If you’re not opening up to people right away, they won’t try harder to get to know you. You either want to connect, or not. But that’s not a problem, if you KNOW about it.If you also know that people have a million distractions in their lives, you’d understand that it’s SO EASY for them to forget about you.Don’t take it personally, it’s normal. If you’re not showing up every time they meet with friends, they’re not gonna make a huge effort to contact you and make sure you come… at least, not when they’re just starting to know you.




    https://www.wikihow.com/Make-Friends-As-an-Introvert

    https://getthefriendsyouwant.com/how-to-make-friends-as-an-introvert/





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